Swen there's video I would like to share with you that eisenhauer principle this principle was one off
lead to great U.S. President Eisenhower favourites than he used as principle or this framework we're
defining and determining what is true and what's seen nor to know.
He used this framework for prioritizing his goals for determining what to say yes to what to say no
to the tasks to commit a lot of time to the tasks to do right now and the tasks that could be put off
until tomorrow because what he could find was how some goals that we will set in life are both important
and urgent.
And these calls are the ones that we need to do right now.
Argin see bear in mind always has an element of time related to when see an element of time.
What I mean by this is that time is running out.
So if something is becoming urgent and we don't deal with that then guess what's going to arise.
That's right.
He mentioned this stress so people with the hard tasks or goals that are both important and our actions
are going to naturally feel like number one priority on their list of goals.
So it's important that we use this framework and just integrate it into our coaching conversationally.
So when someone finds a glasses or yeah this is where we want to develop my communication skills.
We're just simply asking to more cable was as important as a gent as if to say yes to both then that
goes to the top of the priority list because some people will want to utilize the Internet to make themselves
lots of money build and develop a residual income that you know makes money as they sleep.
No.
That's something that most people want.
Yes that's something that I've managed to accomplish over the last few years.
But not everyone is in this place.
Unfortunately most people are still in the place in life without exchanging their time for money which
as we know isn't the most fulfilling or awarding of places to be.
But it's just where people sometimes soar.
We know that becoming financially sustainable in life and developing some sort of business being creative
where we can generate money for ourselves gives us back more.
Time is important but it doesn't always have to be urgent.
If you think about it some people's long term goal for your finances will be to become financially free.
No that's one of my long term goals which I've actually accomplished quite a young age in life.
Bear in mind financial freedom isn't determined by any set monitary amount by a specific amount of money
essentially.
More to do with the attitude that we have towards money.
If you think about it.
Rome has or ever been a point in your life when you've had enough money.
You may be saying yes you may be saying no but most people will say no.
Because most people focus on what they don't have a point to appreciate and what they do have.
Most people live in this slacker mindset where enough is never enough keyport never content until they
have more.
But one problem with feeling like you need more in life is when you get more more Still husband to fill
a job which just leaves you wanting even more stelle.
But the reason why this is true is because in relation to money when it comes to people who are pursuing
worry many people will find that if they can just reach a certain stage in life where they have all
this money that they're going to fuel for felde.
But money lives on that side of people.
Chaumont is a core value which lives on the inside of people so it is impossible for.
Are things on the outside of us to fill us internally.
So when it comes to pursuing a long term goal financial freedom will be a long term goal but in order
to us retain this goal we need to develop a plan.
Take action.
We need to show a lot of short term and medium term goals so we're just not going to happen right away.
There's no point in putting a time frame on this because as soon as you touch a time frame to any gall
or any task or you've put yourself under pressure right away because the thing about time is that is
always running out and you'll find this in target based or sales based work in environments where people
have to make so many sales in a designated frame of time.
People have targets with a half to make so much money in a month.
Anyone who's ever worked in any sales or marketing business environment will understand this.
They're generally very high stress.
Why.
Because time is always running out.
The start of the month when a business or a sales or marketing manager is given their monthly targets
there's no stress.
Everyone is chilling out.
Everyone is having a nice time.
In the last week of the month when time's running out.
Guess what happens.
Sales managers start getting stressed which then naturally flows over onto all the employees and all
the sales people.
Another example could be in the newsroom or a newspaper where every single day there is a headline where
a newspaper must get taken to print a work for a media organization years ago.
And 24 hours are the star of the day.
Everything is fine.
The editor has a plan for what's going to go in the paper.
But if you get sued I know one and a half before the deadline for print and all the news articles aren't
in place.
Guess who's pulling as hero getting stressed.
That's right Mr Ed. And the rest of the sales team and their editorial team end up get naturally stressed
too so it's important that we understand the way in helping our clients to set goals.
As will cancel leave this go all in or do we have to put a time frame on it.
Because if we have to put a time frame on it.
Well that's not let's just commit to doing our very very best in faith for the right outcome at the
right time.
Know that's going to be a nice idea and practical in some instances whilst not so practical in others.
But again that's going to be for you to discern and to determine that's going to be some goals in life
that are arja and where they're running over time but they're actually not important because some people
will just waste your time around.
Some people are going to come to you for life coaching because they feel stressed because they've got
a whole load of stuff going on in their life be the fuel stressed keep your place in all sorts of demands.
But all of these demands they're not important.
You've got to understand as a life coach if someone comes to you with work related stress because the
job that they're in is a stressful environment they are still choosing to be in that.
So they have one or two choices.
Choice number one is the learn how to manage themselves better in that environment if they choose to
stay in it or choice them to is get out get another job or go self-employed.
You know there are viable options.
Your role as the coach is just to help other people become more aware of the extent of the choices that
they actually have.
So this brings us all to the outstanding The final way in which we can program prioritize our goals.
And this is where some girls are not Argent and they're not important.
No I shan't name any names here.
My wife's car and having come from quite a religious background and upbringing.
Many of curran's family members are very busy people.
No.
If I was to observe their lives which I have them in the past yes they're busy.
They never have any time for random meats or for random coffees you speak to them and what do they say.
Hell Hole is such a busy week.
But if you ask them what they're actually accomplishing or what they're actually achieving.
Nine times out of 10 it is very little and I know many other people like I.
If they do have any and related family members watching this right now I'm not being personal here I'm
just using this as a sporadic example but many clients have come my way or source dressed out trying
to do all these things in life and there's no real definitive purpose or reason why they're doing the
things that they do.
They're just busy for happiness sake.
Some some people believe it or not.
Business is just a means by which they used to get no side if their busy minds.
Some people hate being on their own.
Some people can't stand silence therefore when they're externally busy they're focussed on the outside
world which just takes the focus away from what's going on on the inside.
Generally people with very low self-esteem will be very busy externally in jobs or that sort of thing.
It's kind of like avoidance.
Some people think that avoidances is a best thing but avoidance is in cure you are right.
As life coach is using what I've shared with you through this course we're not just looking at putting
sticky plasters on infected ruins by helping people to understand the very essence of who they are and
defining their core values.
When we reach this stage the core of the Baath Party if you like queer or helping people to actually
define the goals what they actually want then this just becomes a very very practical next step.
We're this is just the icing on the cake.
I've dealt with all the stuff underneath the surface and this is just about helping people get more
of what they want so the Eisenhower principle is about you helping Europe's wines to determine the things
that they say yes to the things they see in order to by recognising whether the goals they are pursuing
are important on our agenda in which case they've got to pursue them whether they're important and not
arjun's in which case it's entirely up to them.
Origin are not important again in which case it's entirely up to them.
But the goals that are not origin are not important.
I was strongly encouraged to just leave for an hour and put off until tomorrow to make this stuff.
These girls are number one priority for today because this will fundamentally help your clients get
more of the things that they want.
So this template has again though loadable in the additional materials section which contains a load
earned into your repertoire of life and resources and on forward a senior again in the next video.